As I was heading to the dentist this morning a song came on the radio. It was a song that made me think of everything BeTheDads is to be about. Who God created us to be! The men God created us to be! The husbands that our wives need us to be, and the dads that our kids need us to be. Have you ever listened to the song “Lead Me” by Sanctus Real? I recommend that you take a moment to listen to it and write down the lyrics that speak to you.
To make it easier, I will embed a YouTube video for you to watch and listen to:
Walking in His Purpose: The Men God Created Us to Be
In the song “Lead Me,” Sanctus Real sings, “I want to be a man who’s seen by You, And who can face life boldly.” These lyrics resonate with the biblical call for men to walk in God’s purpose and stand firm in their faith. Ephesians 2:10 reminds us we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works. Being the men God created us to be involves embracing our identity in Him and living out our faith with courage and conviction.
Key takeaway: Men are called to seek God’s guidance and strength in all aspects of life.
Practical applications include daily prayer, studying the Bible, and joining a men’s fellowship group to grow spiritually and support one another in this journey.
Loving Leadership: The Husbands Our Wives Need Us to Be
The lyrics, “To love her like You love me” from “Lead Me,” beautifully capture the essence of being a loving husband. Ephesians 5:25 instructs husbands to love their wives just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her. This sacrificial love requires putting our wives’ needs above our own, providing emotional support, and nurturing our relationship with them.
Key takeaway: Husbands are called to lead with love and humility.
Practical applications include regularly communicating with our wives, actively listening to their needs, and making time for meaningful moments together. Additionally, praying together as a couple can strengthen the bond and invite God’s presence into the marriage.
Guiding with Grace: Created to Be the Dads Our Kids Need Us to Be
Sanctus Real’s lyrics, “To be the dad that my kids would look up to,” highlight the responsibility of fathers to be role models for their children. Proverbs 22:6 encourages parents to train up a child in the way they should go, and when they are old, they will not depart from it. Being the dads our kids need involves teaching them godly values, showing unconditional love, and being present in their lives.
Key takeaway: Fathers play a crucial role in their children’s spiritual and emotional development.
Practical applications include spending quality time with our kids, reading Bible stories together, and setting a positive example through our actions and words. Encouraging our children to develop their own relationship with God is essential in guiding them on the right path.
Created to be Walking the Path Together
As men, husbands, and fathers, we are called to lead with intention, love, and grace. The lyrics of “Lead Me” by Sanctus Real beautifully encapsulate the journey we undertake in each of these roles. By striving to be the men God created us to be, we embrace our identity in Christ and walk in His purpose. As husbands, we are reminded to love our wives sacrificially, just as Christ loves the church, ensuring that our marriages are built on a foundation of mutual respect and understanding. As fathers, we guide our children with wisdom and compassion, instilling in them the values and faith that will sustain them throughout their lives.
Scripture provides us with a solid foundation to build upon. Ephesians 2:10 reminds us of our purpose in Christ, while Ephesians 5:25 challenges us to love our wives selflessly. Proverbs 22:6 emphasizes the importance of guiding our children in the right way. Together, these biblical principles reinforce the message of “Lead Me” and encourage us to live out our roles with faith and integrity.
Let us commit to being the men, husbands, and fathers that God, our wives, our children, and this world need us to be. Through prayer, consistent study of the Bible, and active participation in our faith communities, we can grow into the leaders we are called to be. By leaning on God’s strength and guidance, we can overcome challenges and become a source of light and inspiration to our families and those around us.
Call to Action: Embrace God’s Help and Community Support
It’s essential to recognize that we don’t have to walk this path alone. God has provided us with His Holy Spirit to guide, comfort, and empower us. John 14:26 reminds us that the Holy Spirit is our Helper who teaches us all things and brings to our remembrance all that Jesus has said to us. Additionally, God has given us one another for encouragement and support. Hebrews 10:24-25 encourages us to spur one another on toward love and good deeds and not to give up meeting together, but to encourage one another.
Let’s stop striving on our own and start abiding in God and leaning on each other.
Practical steps include joining a men’s fellowship group, seeking out accountability partners, and regularly praying for and with each other. By doing so, we can build a strong foundation of faith, support, and encouragement that will help us grow as men, husbands, and fathers.
Did you get anything else out of this song? Leave me some comments. Are you interested in joining or starting a “men’s fellowship group”? Leave me a comment or email me at [email protected]. Looking for and willing to be an accountability partner? Leave me a comment or email me at [email protected]. How about being willing to pray for and be prayed for by other dads? Leave me a comment or email me at [email protected].
I will look to create distribution groups and help connect people. Praying for all of you.
